My divorce will be final 9/23/08. I am NOT a man-hater, nor am I unforgiving, bitter or negative about it. I am friends w/him and his current girlfriend. She and I will most likely be friends for life, we both want it that way! I have 3 kids, the oldest is 17, and lives w/ Dad, my middle one is 12, and my youngest is 9. I like kids, animals and family/friends. I'm traditional/old-fashioned when it comes to morals/values. Less traditional when it comes to gender roles, raising kids, and pasttimes. The best times in my day are when I'm driving down the road in my sports car and blasting classic rock (or whatever I choose that day) on a warm sunny day. Faves are: God, real friends, chocolate ANYTHING, conversing w/ interesting people, positive people. Bummers are: negative people, superior people, rude people, rushing anywhere, routines (otherwise known as ruts!), high prices, cloudy/rainy/icy/frigid days, machines. Honesty, communication and trust are must-haves in any relationship.